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The advice: “If they cum and you don’t, they don’t care abou..
🕑 Added 2025-04-17 01:34:29 +0000 UTC The advice: “If they cum and you don’t, they don’t care about you” or “You’re abandoning yourself” is total bullshit.Because this simply isn’t how the cycle of giving and receiving works. This is scarcity mindset, acting under the assumption that love and the physical expression of love is finite.No. Love is infinite and overflowing.(Plus there will be plenty of moments where you might orgasm and they don’t, or you both orgasm, or neither of you do. And that’s 100% okay. It’s a play, it’s not a competition or a performance.)There are many ways one can surrender. As a feminine woman, surrendering in total service to the masculine is a breath of fresh air. A weight lifted off the shoulders. A container to simply radiate my love into.It’s the feeling of letting go of myself, to be me for the pleasure of my lover, in whatever ways they desire.This isn’t something that is necessarily easy, if the masculine is not showing up with presence and safety in order to hold the feminine in trust.But when it happens, mmmmm. Delicious.See, sometimes surrender asks us to release expectations and fears regarding our own body and experience of pleasure, in order to tend to ourself and our potential in moments of intimacy.This is a wild, deep unfolding as well.Sometimes surrender is about stepping deeper into our authentic desires.Sometimes it’s an act of trust, to HEALTHILY abandon ourselves for a moment of time, in service to another.And simultaneously, being filled so fully in the process, our feminine heart overflowing with the masculine’s ability to take control of his own authentic desires as well.Intimacy is trust, plain and simple.And surrender is courageous ecstasy.Yes please, give me more.✨🔥💦🤤
