It’s very common to assume that when a woman likes to be tou..
🕑 Added 2020-08-03 21:38:35 +0000 UTC
It’s very common to assume that when a woman likes to be touched in a particular spot, that we should then do it harder.
And this is a mistake.
What we want to focus on instead is consistent stimulation at a much milder, gentler degree.
Among many reasons, this is one reason that penetrative orgasms are difficult to achieve for women.
Contrary to what a lot of mainstream adult work shows, “being rammed”, especially suddenly, can be shocking for the body.
It gives no time for the body to fully open.
For example, it’s a common recommendation to do a “come hither” motion when stimulating the g-spot; however, I find the area to respond much more when it’s grazed over at a steady rhymthm for a long-ish period of time.
Not just focusing on the g-spot but the area in front & behind it also.
The “come hither” motion may work better when focusing on squirting but squirting does not necessarily = g-spot orgasm.
It can be achieved through gentle, rhythmic stimulation, and more importantly: Deep presence and surrender.
A woman’s body opening up and softening begins far before the actual act of penetration. Our body responds to energetic vibration and the divine feminine deeply understands the feeling and sensation of feeling safe, listened to, understood, and comfortable enough to really surrender.
If you expect a woman to truly open, surrender, and align with orgasmic states, especially penetrative, making love is a continual act.
There is no beginning or end.
