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Hey everyone! It’s Sunny ☀️ I just wanted to provide an up..
🕑 Added 2023-08-25 20:53:09 +0000 UTC Hey everyone! It’s Sunny ☀️ I just wanted to provide an update as we explore more into chastity and how we are starting to incorporate it into our dynamic. 𝗦𝗶𝘇𝗶𝗻𝗴 As you may know from my last post, I have been having a little trouble finding a cage that works well for my anatomy. (Read last post here - https://onlyfans.com/659323882/sunnyskyuncensored I learned alot from my first experience and am happy to report that I have found a cage that I can wear without any discomfort. Through research and some trial and error, I discovered that an important component of a well fitting cage for me lies in the distance between the retaining ring and where the penis goes into the cage. I found that I need more space for my testacles and their “wiring” to be comfortable. Overall cage diameter is also important as I had trouble getting even my flaccid penis into my previous cage. It was like trying to shove a limp worm into a hole that’s just a little too small for it. Not easy to do. My new cage fixed both of the problems I had in these areas and can be worn for days at a time. 𝗗𝘆𝗻𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗰 This is something we are still really figuring out. Chastity is commonly used as a domination tool by females to exert power and orgasm control over their submissive male. That isn’t the type of dynamic Skye and I have, so I knew it would be interesting to try out chastity and see how it could work with our power dynamic. As a dom, being caged is an interesting feeling and headspace. Since I am not being commanded to wear it and submit to Skye by doing so, I am doing it in a very voluntary way. Right now mostly out of curiosity and self discovery than anything else. We did have an interesting moment the first night I was caged where Skye felt it against her and felt as though she was also in chastity because my cock was also off limits for her as well. Something interesting that we will continue to explore. Almost a form of reverse chastity where I lock myself up so she can’t have me. As you’ll see in our upcoming pegging video, we are still figuring out how chastity fits into our play scenes and it will evolve over time as we try and do more with it. One thing this new exploration has reminded me of is that we often confine ourselves to only being able to explore kinks with a partner. Yes, some truly do require a partner but oftentimes we are still able to experience many parts and aspects of a kink on our own. With this example of chastity, it can be a great way to start to explore power play with yourself. Voluntary chastity takes a certain level of self control and mental fortitude. It almost turns into a challenge. “I know I can stop this at any time but I’m not going to.” I can see how it would be fun to set goals for yourself and use unlocking as a reward. Chastity can also be a great way to slow yourself down and play with sensory deprivation. I rarely go more than 3 days without cumming and have always had concerns with decreased sensitivity due to constant stimulation. After wearing the cage for 2 days, I definitely could see how extended wear(7+ days) could really have an impact on sensitivity and orgasm intensity. Your dick does get more stimulation than you probably realize just from daily movement in your underwear and there is almost no sensation in the cage. As with any kink, experience and education really is the name of the game. The more experience you have the better it gets. Exploring kinks on your own can really give the space to take your time, get experience and also play around at your own pace. Some of the best sexual lessons and discoveries have been on my own. Boredom and horniness can be a very beneficial combo and I encourage you to lean into self play and discovery 😂 I do think that chastity and many other kinks typically seen as one way(female dominating male) can be a part of any dynamic. We like to constantly remind ourselves that we are always free to explore kinks in whatever way works for us. There is no single right way to do any kink. There is always the option to make things our own and have fun along the way. Thank you for reading and thank you for providing a safe space for us to explore! ❤️ Stay tuned for more chastity updates.
