As Sunny and I start planning for more BDSM content, I wante..
🕑 Added 2023-07-31 06:00:29 +0000 UTC
As Sunny and I start planning for more BDSM content, I wanted to reshare the very first time we played with restraints and my first time playing with orgasm control. My smile is so big in this video if you haven't seen this classic 😉
When Sunny and I started dating within the first week we had asked each other about our curiosities, desires, fantasies, and toys that we each had. At one point I actually asked him over text to send me his favorite porn scene. This was a good way for me to see what turns him on and gave him a chance to open up to me in a really sexy and vulnerable way. For your information my favorite go to porn at the moment is gay rough porn, or bi-sexual rough porn (this changes with the seasons but that is currently my go too). This can feel really scary to share at times, this is a look into your deepest fantasies and the things that turn you on when you are alone, and what if that scares them away? BUT what if it gets you both excited and gives you a chance to open that dialog and even reenact it?
So Sunny sent me an incredible intense orgasm control video with stretching, stuffing, incredibly rough squ!rting and dildo fucking. A video of a pleasure dom just absolutely having his way with his sub, and as you can imagine this turned me on sooo much to see and watch! I would have never known that he was into this if I didn't ask, and we would have never been able to recreate a scene like this without seeing that.
I know it can feel incredibly scary at times to talk to our partners about what we are into, let alone even admit it to ourselves without feeling shame. But what I want to encourage you to do is advocate for you and your kinks, take pride in your quirks and curiosities, and try to open that dialogue around exploration early on. Create that safe sexy space for you to play, to chat, and to be vulnerable!
This type of play takes work, you don't just me3et a partner and start to do breath work and orgasm control without building trust, talking about tr!ggers and boundaries, learning how to negotiate a scene, debriefing afterwards, putting your ego aside to ensure your partner feels safe, and always circling back to the love you have for each other with aftercare. Please be safe when playing, and know that when doing any type of kink play the only acceptable type of c0nsent is enthusiastic.
So tell me below, what are some of your favorite go to porn categories at the moment?!
