Today, I spent time with my father for Father’s Day. A bun..
🕑 Added 2024-06-16 23:58:12 +0000 UTC
Today, I spent time with my father for Father’s Day. A bunch of us ate at a Chinese restaurant for lunch. Afterwards, I took some time alone at my temporary place to organize and work while my ex was supposed to organize and pack the rest of my place (I paid him to years ago and hes taking years to do a 5 day job which was driving me crazy.) I finally had enough and showed up to see that he spent the day on the phone instead. (Just shitposting in the armpits of the internet; not even helping me with work and promoting me or anything) I had another breakdown. This renovation should have been finished 3 years ago but we were waiting on him to get everything out of here. I paid him thousands to organize and move everything out and he’s been dragging his feet for years and it’s been keeping me stresed. I can’t ask hot people to come over until renovations is over and itd been driving me insane. My father showed up and asked him to leave. He was getting tired of seeing me constantly upset with him. My father then took a few hours again to help me since he kept half assing helping me and taking YEARS to do it for whatever reason. My father really came through for me and it took him 3 days to do what my ex couldn’t do in 4 years. I feel so much better and really thankful that my father helped me where I’ve been asking for help. I wish I asked him for help earlier instead of this guy. My father was pretty angry, too. He told my dad he was going to help so I can stop being so stressed out and breaking down about not having a decent place to live in or take photos in. When my father showed up he saw that he didn’t do anything. It doesn’t take 2 days to dismantle a bed frame. He spent 2 hours helping move while my dad put in 8 hours for free. He was getting tired of his 10% energy, too. Anyways, he’s been kicked out and banned from my place. My father really genuinely came through for me and helped me move most of my stuff out of here for renovations. I’ll never forget the Father’s Day where he was really a father for me and stood up for me. I really should have reached out to my father instead. Boys can be losers but fathers and good guys can be there for you.
