**HOW TO RIZZ GIRLS** It has come to my attention that some..
🕑 Added 2023-03-15 18:02:28 +0000 UTC
**HOW TO RIZZ GIRLS** It has come to my attention that some of you may need help getting girls’ phone numbers or just making the first move in general. I’m giving you a free 12-step guide that (I think) will help you get more numbers and build connections with people IRL!! 1) try to go for someone that you think you’d have a genuine connection with, not just like the hottest person you see. Often the people we have the most in common with make for the best partners 😋 2) compliments go a long way!! “Tell her you love her eyes, her hair, the way she parts her hair..!! In fact, tell her you love all her parts. Oh no, I can’t do that…” 😏 For real though, any guy who has ever caught my attention ever just used a genuine compliment on me and it 100% worked, like every time. Don’t try to sass or neg or whatever. It does not work even if you think it does!! When guys do that to me they get blocked. 😗 3) leave her alone!! Underrated step honestly. Don’t just stand there and try to engage in an hour-long conversation. Keep it really short, simple, and sweet, then LEAVE. Making an exit says that you’re busy and have important things to do. Wish her an amazing day and then get the heck out of there lol. If you’re lucky, you’ll run into each other again or maybe she will approach you back. 4) bonus round** this works for me because I’m kind of clumsy in general lol, but if you leave something cute behind (your keys, your headphones, whatever) you’ll have to see each other again because they’re in possession of something you have to go back and get. Works like a charm ;) I also do this to people I’m already dating lol. Like oops sorry oh no guess we have to see each other again!! 😁😁 5) recognize that everyone is different!! Some people might like if you’re more cute, or if you’re more experienced just go for that. Work your best angles, confidence is super duper key. 6) try to make THEM feel good. Now that you’re talking, try putting their needs first. It’s not always easy but I’m naturally a giver so it’s kind of like second nature for me. No one likes a person who is always beefing themselves up 😂 unless you’re doing it to be funny. Charisma is really all about making the other person feel like a million bajillion bucks, not the other way around. Putting others down gets you nowhere!! Btw this does not apply if your personality is just “I am sexy and hot” someone like James Dean or Alexa Demie. In that case, you can be your sexy hot self lol no one is complaining 😉😉 7) remember the things they tell you/the things you notice about them. Everyone loves a person who they feel like genuinely listens to them. Oh they have a pet? Ask them what their pet’s name/age is, and ask to see pictures (then you get to see cute images of puppies or cats lol). They have a certain profession/hobby? Ask what got them into that, or why they love it. It’s always good to find common ground, but variety is the spice of life. Who knows, maybe they’ll get you to try something new 😋 8) don’t feel let down if the magic doesn’t happen immediately. There’s like 7 billion people on this planet, there is no time to waste!! If you two aren’t vibing, that’s totally fine! Make sure to read the cues. Or at the very least, be receptive to things not working out if they speak up about it. 9) the date!! The date is super key. Do something you both love doing :)) food is a great way to get to know each other. Active dates are also super fun, like amusement parks or even walks in the park. Anything involving adrenaline increases positive feelings for each other ;)) don’t knock it until you try it!!! 10) WHO MAKES THE FIRST MOVE: this really depends on the person haha. If it’s someone I feel really familiar or comfortable with, I’ll make the first move. Usually I like to ask if they’d be interested in seeing me 😗 and maybe like, have a lil kiss lol. But if it’s someone I’m crushing hard on/they asked me out first, I let them make the first move. It’s really fun to switch between sub/dom (not even in the BDSM sense, but just see who likes to be the one in control). Personally, I love being a dom, but I love being sub as well 😋😋😋 hehe makes life interesting!! 11) don’t be afraid to get silly. Laughter is such a good social lubricant for awkward situations and you will feel really comfortable once you both feel like there’s no repercussion for small mishaps. Even during sex it’s ok to be goofy!! Like obviously it’s super hot but it’s also something really fun that you can enjoy with your partner. Also be open to new experiences 😆 you might end up expanding your sexual repertoire! (Obviously do this within your own limits) 12) LAST BUT NOT LEAST: love yourself first. I feel like no one talks about this but you definitely need a degree of self-confidence to be able to take on a relationship or even a hookup with someone else. Doesn’t matter what happens, you need to look out for YOU and make sure you’re happy and that your needs are met. Don’t seek out reassurance from relationships because that will always bite you in the ass if anything goes awry/your partner is not giving you attention. You are a beautiful, sexy, hot, smart motherfucker and you deserve the world!!! P.S. thanks for the nice messages everyone. I can’t always respond but I do see them and I appreciate you 🫶
