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Let’s talk about the importance of connection. I don’t thi..
🕑 Added 2021-06-16 14:32:38 +0000 UTC Let’s talk about the importance of connection. I don’t think it’s a secret that our modern society excels at cutting us off from each other and isolating us. People NEED connections. They need to be seen and heard. This need is far more vital than any other humans have outside of food, water and shelter. I have to speak about the toxic ideas some men have in their heads about this platform and sex work in general. There are very misogynistic, very toxic ideas that if a man pays someone for connection, then they are weak, a “beta,” a “cuck,” or a “simp.” We never run out of slanderous words to label men with who are simply being vulnerable and admitting the FACT that they need connection. Authoritarian, Puritan capitalism is extremely skilled at crafting incredibly detrimental mental traps for men to exist in. Notice I said “exist” and not “live,” because you’re not truly living if you’re trapped in these head spaces of pure toxic masculinity. A rabidly individualistic society like ours seeks to turn men into egomaniacs who constantly judge themselves as harshly as possible. It’s so bad at this point that if a man is simply kind to a woman online then often he will be piled on and degraded by other “men” for being a “white knight.” Our society is so sick that it degrades others for showing kindness. Really think about that. Everything is about divide and conquer as well as engineering people into the most self-destructive, disempowered state as possible. We are easier to rule that way. There is nothing shameful about reaching out for connection when you need it. And when you aren’t in a position to get it in real life, whether you are single or in a loveless relationship, getting connection through a platform like this is so much better than not having it at all. ❤️ There is no shame attached to reaching out to a psychologist for help when you need it. (Anymore, there used to be) So why is there shame for men attached to using platforms like this, where you can get similar help for a fraction of the price? Misogyny, religious authoritarian Puritanism that has never gone away, and insanely toxic hate mobs of very lonely, very broken “men” who are so full of ego that they would rather have it end in suicide or a mass shooting than be honest with themselves about what they truly need. YOU are the REAL men. Capable of honesty and vulnerability. Not them. And I appreciate every last one of you. Please reach out to talk if you need it. I will make the time. ❤️
