I heard you lil’ nasties like my luscious lips that dangle. ..
🕑 Added 2022-08-23 16:20:23 +0000 UTC
I heard you lil’ nasties like my luscious lips that dangle. Well, here they are in all their spread winged butterfly glory humping your face in slow motion. Yer welcum. 😜
I want to tell you something very personal right now. I used to be insecure about my labia. While I was still in the ideas phase of starting OF I was very unsure how my body would be perceived. My partners all assured me it was *sublime* pussy, but I thought my labia was too long to be considered attractive. Yet here I am showing them off. 🤷🏻♀️
I was also afraid people would poke fun at my breasts which are not exactly the same size, or my nipples with their little bumps, or the big scar I have on my backside from a traumatic surgery I had as a kid, or the fact that I’m almost always rocking a 5 o’clock shadow on my pubes, or that my face breaks out on my period, ALL of the silly insecurities that I’ve ever had about myself, almost got in the way of me taking this path.
If you’ve followed me for any amount of time, I don’t think I’ve ever called attention to my insecurities. Honestly I don’t believe it’s healthy to talk ad nauseam about things we dislike about ourselves, especially things we cannot change. But today I feel like reminding you of my humanity and the fact that we can work through our self doubt by being brave. ❤️
Surprisingly, showing off my pretty kitty to thousands of people of the internet, allowed me to develop a deeper love for her. I’ve always strongly pursued stepping out of my comfort zone as a way to gain true confidence. Putting myself out there when I was the most scared to, has lead to transformational growth.
I also believe our insecurities are worth embracing so that we can transform our feelings into something positive. For example, before I started working out, my left arm was so weak compared to my right because of a tumbling accident years ago and I was insecure about going to the gym as a “weak newbie” who had no idea what I was doing. But once I learned how to use the equipment, and how to listen to my body, I gained confidence over my ability to move.
Confidence happens when you do the things you’re scared of over and over, kindly affirming yourself every time. Once I put my body out there, I started to appreciate the gifts I was given between my legs, my entire vessel, and the life experiences I had that created this form I inhabit today.
Of course, having tons of strangers telling me how wonderful I am is helpful, and I am shocked at the lack of negativity I’ve received since day one. But I am committed in my heart to fully embrace myself and do the healing work necessary to sustain a temporary high from nice strangers on the internet.
My body is rich, soft, strong, sweet, giving, plentiful, unique and beautiful, just as we all are. We come in every shape, size, and color and they’re all lovely in their own way. Mine is no different from that. Yours is no different from that. We must honor our vessels and everything we’ve experienced to create them.
And if you’re insecure about something, I suggest leaning into that and putting yourself out there anyway, if you know deep down that it will make you better in the long run. 🥰
