Clip title: **Cuckold Tease and Denial**
What's worse: neve..
🕑 Added 2022-06-03 19:55:17 +0000 UTC
Clip title: **Cuckold Tease and Denial**
What's worse: never experiencing something you want, or getting a small taste of it before being denied?
Psychology would tell us the latter is far more difficult - that experiencing something incredibly pleasurable in an unsatisfactory amount is more distressing than never experiencing it all. This underwrites the logic of many paradigms that seek to guide or control our relationships with pleasurable stimuli. For example, recognizing that even a tiny sample of a substance/stimuli will send individuals down a path of uncontrolled pleasure-seeking, addiction recovery programs always emphasize abstinence over moderation. Same goes for religiously conservative sex ed programs. The primary concern of religious institutions is to prevent premarital penetrative sex, which most modern religions regard as immoral. Yet, these sex ed programs also discourage non-penetrative acts like kissing and touching, even though there are no formal religious proscriptions around these behaviours. They only discourage non-penetrative acts because they recognize that 'softer' forms of sexual contact are a slippery slope to fucking (personally, I can't remember the last time I ever had a pleasurable makeout with someone without it leading to sex). Even the Lay's potato chip company has tapped into this dimension of human behaviour; on the back of the potato chip bags they teasingly write, 'I bet you can't eat just one!'. Marketers are experts in human behaviour. A single sentence on the back of a bag of chips will tell you much of what you need to know about how we operate.
Leading primarily from a place of cerebral domination, I frequently use this principle in my D/s interactions. It's comparatively easy for subs to control their urges when they don't have any access to the stimulus that weakens them. Sure, the visual pleasures of being in my presence are nothing to minimize. I know these men get subby and weak just looking at me, especially given many of them don't ever get the opportunity to get this close to beautiful women. But there's something to be said about getting *very* close to my body, being able to touch me, smell me, taste me. But only limited touch, a quick smell, a tiny taste...
Inviting them into pleasure - but never allowing them to reach satiation - is the easiest way to reorganize their brains so they will submit to any demand I make.
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