Clip title: **Yes, Goddess**
Superiors are allergic to the ..
🕑 Added 2022-02-22 22:01:00 +0000 UTC
Clip title: **Yes, Goddess**
Superiors are allergic to the word ’no’, and any iteration of that cursed word.
“I can’t do that, Goddess”
“Goddess, can we do something else, instead?”
“Goddess, I’m not sure I can make that happen”
Gross.
Now, of course you see some of the wild things I do to my subs. Some practices and scenarios so humiliating/degrading/painful/risky/intense/extreme that you likely ask yourself “how did she get that sub to do to that?”.
This is a legitimate question, as there is an art in having subs reach their lowest form for me. It’s not necessarily automatic. And for me, the practice of femdom or domination more broadly is pushing subs to new limits, to maximize their potential. If they approach me for key holding, I ask them the longest they’ve gone without orgasm, and I seek to increase their chastity term exponentially. If they are a finsub, I ask them the most they’ve spent on a Domme, and then make them spend more than they’ve spent before. If they’re a pain slut, I’ll have them tell me the worst they’ve destroyed their balls for a goddess, then push the pain to a level they never could imagine.
You get the point. I’m not all that interest in delivering repetitive scenarios and routine, I want to watch you descend further down the rabbit hole of submission, in whichever form is most suitable.
The process of pushing you down that path is a progressive one. I’ve said it once and I’ve said it again, going from zero to one hundred with a sub is unrealistic in many cases, depending on the kink. Many subs need to be carefully cajoled into reaching a new limit. There are many tactics one can use for this, but one strategy is verbal affirmation - teaching subs to exclude the words “no”, “I can’t”, “I won’t”, “I’m not sure” etc. from their vocabulary. There are a few ways to do this, strategies I’ve picked up having worked in sales and having learned the art of turning non-buyers or on-the-fencers into committed spenders. I won’t share all of these strategies here, as I have a vested interest in keeping my cards close.
But one thing I will share is that with my long-term, real life subs the process of turning them from resistance to consistent “yes, Goddess” subs is a process of gradation. First, I’m going to give you a series of relatively simple tasks. Things you might even enjoy. The process of saying “Yes, Goddess” feels easy, it feels good, it just rolls off your tongue and you eagerly get to completing your task. You love the feeling of accomplishing the task, and being told you’re a good boy. You’re already starting to connect the words “Yes, Goddess” with the pleasure of reward. Very Pavlovian.
Then, I step it up. I give you a task you’ve done once or twice before with another Domme, but it’s relatively new and challenging. You say “Yes, Goddess”, because although challenging, the task is familiar and not outside the bounds of how far you’ve gone in submission. Again, you complete something for me that is challenging, and you get a high off knowing you’ve pleased me.
Next, I give you a task you’ve never done before. Had I introduced this to you at the outset, you would’ve hesitated because the synapsis in your brain between your pleasure centre and the simple words of “yes, Goddess” has not yet connected. You are not yet aware of the high that comes with saying yes, you are not yet aware of the reward you get from being a good boy for me. But I’ve already carved out those neural pathways, I’ve already slowly depleted the word no from your vocabulary. The pleasure of saying yes ultimately overrides the part of your monkey brain that senses danger. So you do it. And now the reward centre of your brain is firing like crazy because you just did something bigger than you’ve ever done before. It doesn’t matter that it was difficult, humiliating, expensive, extreme; in fact, it’s precisely because it was so intense that you are reaching this level of elevation.
And so it continues, and as you fall deeper into the rabbit hole for me you forget what baseline submission even felt like when you were practicing it. Retrospectively it looks and feels elementary, novice, not really even submission. Now, you are a true sub. You’ve reached a higher form of servitude even as you’ve broken so many limits you once regarded as important.
And I got you here using only the soft yet powerful phrase, **“yes, Goddess.”**
