Spontaneous Desire Vs Responsive Desire Pt 1 🤍
Have you hea..
🕑 Added 2023-05-26 14:58:18 +0000 UTC
Spontaneous Desire Vs Responsive Desire Pt 1 🤍
Have you heard of these before?
There are many layers to our sex drive.
Understanding our own sex drive helps us better navigate and communicate with our partner(s) about it all
✨Spontaneous desire happens when mental arousal leads into our physical desire.
We start to think about sex and our body follows in getting aroused or desiring sex.
It can be a moment, a feeling, a thought, a sight, whatever it is - Our body and selves can be turned on more spontaneously in that way.
✨ Responsive desire is when it takes responding to the physical to spark the drive / desire
We respond to something which then creates that mental arousal and physical desire for us.
Historically, men often experience spontaneous desire and women follow more responsive desire.
This creates conflict in how we are connecting into sex / intimacy or confusion as to “Why am I turned on and they aren’t?”
To know this helps us better understand how we can begin to connect with our partner in a way that honor their desire style as well as yours
Which do you relate with most often?
