🚨 ⬇️ FEMDOM EXPLAINED ⬇️🚨
I have gotten quite a few message..
🕑 Added 2023-09-08 15:20:29 +0000 UTC
🚨 ⬇️ FEMDOM EXPLAINED ⬇️🚨
I have gotten quite a few messages asking about my recent posts.
If you have DMd me asking me to provide clarity for YOU (in particular, if no tribute was provided for my time both for writing that, and then to answer your question), then you are thinking of how the domme can serve YOU, and not how you can serve her. I will still respond, just because I am doing my part to hopefully add clarity to this. All too often I hear how hard it is to find a domme, when the problem is often the "sub" (notice the quotes).
It can all be seen in the wording. If everything is framed around your needs, what you want, etc., and never once think about how to improve the dommes life, then you do not understand what it means to serve. It should be ALL about her, but that can take some training, so at minimum everything cannot be framed around you.
This is again 100% fine, and actually the norm. What you probably have is a kink/fetish, in which sometimes you are submissive. This is not a "true" sub that lives to please/serve the domme.
We can still form a relationship, for example, around some goal such as anal training to cum from anal only. This is a paid service.
As a point of reference, my subs
(1) send for coffee, daily or for the week
(2) send for my lunch from time to time
(3) make captioned/censored photos for Reddit
(4) come up with catchy titles for Reddit
(5) pay for my tanning (adopt a bill)
(6) provide content ideas, and if I like, buy the needed items for me
(7) large sends from time to time
(8) gas gift cards
(9) etc
I also have one serving as my business advisor of sorts, which is something he does for his actual job. I have more than doubled my $ here since he has been serving me.
They get nothing in return, other than to know they have pleased me. Of course, while never expected, some do have a way to contact me during the day, and end up getting their ass absolutely destroyed..lol..
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