ASK ME (Us) ANYTHING
Drew and I get so many questions regar..
🕑 Added 2021-04-04 10:22:04 +0000 UTC
ASK ME (Us) ANYTHING
Drew and I get so many questions regarding how we got into the lifestyle (LS), our playdates, our bulls, just to name a few.
Ask them here! I will tell you the truth (without outing myself)....I will keep adding to this post and commenting on your questions here.
How long have we been in the lifestyle?
We opened our marriage April 2020
How did Drew and I get started in the LS?
Drew has wanted to see me with another man forever! We are happily married 22 years now, 3 kids...neither of us has ever cheated on the other. We've always discussed opening the marriage, but it wasn't anything I needed at the time. Flash forward to 2018 when I got a serious medical diagnosis, then surgery in early 2019. Huge life wake-up scare! 2 weeks after my surgery Drew got in a car accident, his car was totaled, but luckily he walked away with minor injuries. We both focused on health & recovery that year, then in April 2020 I had my moment of clarity. Drew had been posting some of my pics on Reddit and I was loving the filthy/dirty/hot comments, totally not understanding why men were so complimentary towards me...but hugely turned on nonetheless. I was also sexting/chatting with men and that was fun too. One night at work I decided that I was going to lose my "marriage virginity" as I called it...I messaged a guy I was currently chatting with, asked if he would visit me at a hotel that Friday night. OMG, my heart was hammering in my chest! First, I couldn't believe how bold I was with asking such a request, as well as the request itself! He immediately replied that he would be honored! And so it happened. But not to the extent that I had hoped. He was nervous/had anxiety...I don't quite know...and couldn't maintain a hard-on. Of course I thought it was because of me! Drew met him when he arrived but left shortly after because I didn't want the first time to be added pressure with Drew watching. And the guy was gorgeous, and so sweet and complimentary. But it just wasn't happening. Several days later, chatting another guy, chat got steamy and we had sex that afternoon at a hotel. Another solo for me but I got the HotWife experience (and hard pounding) I had hoped for!! He chatted Drew immediately after and I left sore, swollen and feeling like a super sexy HotWife. And so it began....during Covid of all times too! We played safe, clean, and in hotels and sometimes in a residence.
Were we swingers prior to Hotwifing?
No, as I mentioned above, we only discussed opening our marriage but never had any swinging experience prior. Speaking of swinging, Drew and I are not into the swinging scene typically. I am more territorial and do not feel comfortable watching him with another woman. Nothing is set in stone, it's all situational and depends on the people involved, but Hotwifing is our comfort zone.
Did I have a high libido prior to Hotwifing?
Over 22 years our sex life has had its ups and downs, and having kids has contributed to that. Now that Drew and I are in our 40's and our kids are older and more self-sufficient we are focusing on ourselves more. Hotwifing has definitely made me hornier. I crave sex! I love it! I need it!
Will I show my face?
I showed my face once, odds are I'll show it again even if it's only for a day or two.
What is a fantasy you haven't made come true?
I really want MFM. I've done it with Drew as the second guy, but I want him to WATCH me with 2 guys. Other items on my bucket list are DP, maybe DVP...but certainly MFM to happen this year.
What is the sluttiest thing you've done with or without Drew?
One of the hottest things I've done is fucking the cop of duty (I did a post about that, with the story included). The whole scenario was so hot!!! Wasn't the hottest sex but everything about the whole scene made it to the top of the list. Something else that has pushed my boundaries is playing at a sex/swing club. I've given 2 partners BJ's at the club with the whole club watching (Drew gave me the run down on the drive home how all attention was on me while I was busy). That was certainly something I enjoyed doing as an exhibitionist, and pushed many of my boundaries.
Will you see me with a woman?
I've been with a few women. We don't take pics/vids of all our experiences and always ask if the partner allows it. I'm sure it won't be too long before we do it again with useable footage.
Cucking/Does Drew eat cum out of your pussy every time your bull cums inside you?
This question brings up several good points to address. First, clean sex. I am tested regularly and we require all partners to show recent proof of clean sti test. Not all partners are granted bare access, only regulars, and again, it's based on clean testing. And cucking...that's situational. The dynamic we have with partners varies. Even if a guy is wearing a condom, I love when he rips it off and cums on me (wherever!). Drew enjoys cleaning...maybe 75% of the time...because it depends on how comfortable the guy is with it and our dynamic.
Do I cum all over my bulls cock so its visibly creamy? Do I make my cuck clean my bulls cock afterwards to taste all my creamy cum off the bulls cock?
I've definitely gotten creamy on some of these men. Drew has only cleaned two of my partner's cocks so it isn't something he's generally accustomed to. And it's something he may need to work on...
How many partners have I had?
Wow, I get asked this question all the time and tbh, it's no ones business. As Drew and I state, we've had just the right amount of partners but are always looking for more.
What do I look for in a bull?
Experience. That is key for me. It's definitely about chemistry and connection as well. I'm not a size queen but girth is a huge turn on, as well as size. People often presume Drew is small, but he's actually 6.5/7 (?). And I love a fit man. Drew has a wonderful dad bod so I'm accustomed to that at home. I love a dominant man, someone who will take control and own me. Drew verifies all my bulls, and even then I get flaked on. The hunt for new bulls is constant.
Feel free to continue asking questions below in the comments!
