This week, I'm going to talk about my thoughts and experienc..
🕑 Added 2023-07-14 22:41:20 +0000 UTC
This week, I'm going to talk about my thoughts and experiences on BDSM and being a female switch.
In BDSM terms, being a switch means that you are comfortable taking both dominant and submissive roles in the bedroom. When I got into the sex industry, it didn't take me long to figure out that it was much safer for me to take on the dominant role. And I knew that at least if I was leading the session, we were both going to have a great time. And, because it takes a lot of trust to submit to someone.
So, most of my experiences are me being dominant. I love being able to take someone away from real life for just a little while. To be able to edge a man so close you hold his orgasm with the tip of your finger, is an addictive feeling. And most of all, being able to help a man feel safe, vulnerable, and turned on all at the same time, is powerful.
I have explored real submission with only a few men in my personal life. My need to submit only really comes out when I'm stressed or had a bad day. Subspace gives me the dopamine I need to sleep and start fresh tomorrow. Tying me by the ankle to the bed while we watch a movie, or a quick 5 min bending me over his knee when I need to release tension.
This week I'm going to do some pics and videos that explore both sides. And tell some of my favorite stories as a top and a bottom.
And then, I'm going to make this week required reading when I find a potential OF/play partner. That, and they have to watch Secretary. I can never trust someone that says their kinky but hasn't seen that movie. It's like being on a bowling league and never watching King Pin. Or wanting to be a rapper and not watching 8 Mile.
