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🕑 Added 2022-12-13 18:47:32 +0000 UTC Why shouldn't a submissive pay? Nothing turns me off quicker than a potential slave who outright refuses to provide any financial compensation for a Domme's time and effort. Let me explain. I know the world is ripe with money hungry, lying sluts, who are out to abuse your wallet and leave you whimpering in broken sub drop. This is a crime. But just as there are true submissives who feel an inner calling to serve, there are dominants who feel an inner calling to proper ownership and guidance. Do not tell me: "If you love it, you shouldn't have to be paid!" It's absolute bullshit. You do not tell a person, whose passion is in science, to spend their life studying science, get a job in science and then tell them, in fact, we aren't going to pay you! You like science! Why should we? You do not just take an artist's painting off a wall and take it to your home. There is worth, time, education, passions, materials and so much more, within that piece of art. You pay for the privilege. You pay for the experience. You pay for the talent and time the artist worked, not just the piece of art produced. You pay the scientist well, so he does his job as easily and happily as possible. I will not keep track of your kinks, tasks, limits, preferred methods of discipline, rituals, etc. I will not subject myself to images of you jerking off your pathetic piece of meat in my honor. Or guide you to take cocks deep in your throat and ass. I will not give focus, energy, education and passion without compensation that is thoughtful and aware of the skills, education and direction I bring to the dynamic. Oh, but Goddess! It is a relationship! We do not pay to be in relationships! Bullshit. It is a relationship! A very intimate and close one. I often end up helping slaves with challenges that have nothing to do with sex. A death in their life, an addiction, etc. I can't even begin to fathom, in vanilla life, how anyone could excuse showing your dick, before you take them out for coffee. One goddamn dinner or date, at least. All the gifts you give to make the person you are dating feel special. When this argument is brought about I feel even more hurt. Slaves know me deeply, and I, them. The idea they would not even pay to take me out for dinner, or buy me things to make my life brighter when they feel called to, makes me incredibly sad and nauseous. A slave was actually the one to explain the next one to me. (I love that I can learn things from my sweet pets. ) As they explained, I own their entire being. Their body, will and actions are first in foremost from my commands, and I should center and drive their life. BUT in their vanilla life, their job, took away a large a mount of time, that would otherwise be spent worshipping, completely tasks and otherwise being a good little pet. They felt, that the proceeds of that work should, at least, in part, go back to the worship, comfort and focus of their Goddess. They enjoyed sending me gifts often, and consistently gave with thanks for the things we achieved together. Others long to be absolute whores and give the proceeds of the endeavors back to their Goddess. As long as we live in a capitalist society, money will always be of importance. It is given for entertainment, pleasure, connection and education in our daily lives. Why do you stop so quick to use it here? Of course, vet your Dommes. Of course, proceed with caution. But don't think you are some special gift. You are work. You are a project. You are a pain in the ass. And if you're a cheap asshole, who doesn't understand the very basic concept of servitude? Just say that, and stop wasting everyone's time. It's insulting and pathetic. #goddess #domme #femdom #dominant #submissive #powerexchange #paywomen
