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🕑 Added 2020-07-10 21:45:24 +0000 UTC fun fact about sex! (and me!) . . . . . . . . .. I took a psy of sex course in college and it was realllllly interesting! I pulled out my notes this morning to share some interesting things I learned. I learned that if you do not spice things up in the bedroom with your SO, passion will dwindle and so will the relationship! Sex is so fucking important, you guys! It's so important! Doing the same things over and over is not healthy for you or your partner. Here are a couple of things you can do to spice up your sex life which, in turn, will spice up your life :D ۵ take time to get to know yourself. write down your fantasies (or write them to me with penpals!) and figure out your desires. sometimes, when we write, we learn more about ourselves! our thoughts/desires/goals are trapped in our head, writing them down helps to get those feelings out in an organized fashion. ۵ talk about sex regularly. what turns you on. slip in some dirty talk. keep sex on your brain. watch paid for porn. engage with people who make you feel like your sexuality is alive and well! put energy and time into people who spark that fire for you! ۵ if you're nervous about telling your partner your fantasies, make a "yes or no" list. it's a less intense way of being like "hey we should do a threesome??? yes?? no??" lol ۵ realize that sex therapy is a thing! my professor was a sex therapist and she was not only one fo the coolest people I've ever met, she helped THOUSANDS of people with their sex and dating life. Therapy is cool! normalize getting therapy for all problems in life, not just emotional issues (usually they go hand in hand though(: )
