🐤 PLEASE READ 🐤 REALITY BYTE 🐤 Ok, so here's another session..
🕑 Added 2021-11-17 19:00:30 +0000 UTC
🐤 PLEASE READ 🐤 REALITY BYTE 🐤 Ok, so here's another session on "Reality Bytes" A "Reality Byte" is a post that I make on real life and on real issues that I am passionate about. The pic is even of me in plain clothes because, you know, I'm not laying naked on the bed 24/7 masturbating...😝.
For real, I'm a real gal. I have kids. I have a job. I have a mortgage. ...and I've been BUSY! My guess is that a lot of you feel like me...like you have too much on your plate all the time. I've been so busy that I haven't even been able to make new content. It's frustrating, honestly. Please hang on, though. I PROMISE you new and fresh content is coming soon!
So enough gibber-gabber...I want to touch some more on the story of my husband and me. There has been a LOT of interest. If you're not familiar, I was a leader of a well-known Christian ministry and he was a Navy Chaplain and pastor. We left all of that and now we find ourselves fucking each other for you on OF. We don't feel bad or wrong or guilty. We feel free and we are enjoying life now more than ever.
But, for those of you who have been following the story so far, I've left a BIG gap in how we got from there to here. That's on purpose, and we just started telling the story, so just keep following along and the gap will eventually close.
For now...how did we get from there to here? There's a million different aspects of our life that has to go into answering that question...I'll just focus in on one aspect that I thought of at random just now...
That is, both my husband and I, from the time we started ministry and throughout our ministry time, grew tired of always having to "play the part." Being a devout Christian, and especially being a Christian leader, is just too mentally, physically, emotionally, AND spiritually exhausting. The church folks we led constantly scrutinized and criticized us for the way we looked, or the way we acted, or the way we did this, or didn't do that. It was incessant. In short, they expected us to be perfect and everybody had a different idea of what perfection looked like.
Coupled with that, we knew we were FAR from perfect. I struggle with some things in life and so does my husband. The church would say all day long that they'd love us unconditionally, but, that's just a lie. They find out that pastor and wife have, omg, issues...they just, again, criticize, judge, gossip...all that.
So, our growing weariness of this just grew and grew and grew into a misery that just consumed our lives. Luckily, it got so big that we could no longer ignore it, and thankfully we decided to give the middle finger to that misery and take our lives back.
There's still a lot of gap there, but, in short, we left ministry and gradually transitioned into sex work. Sex work is new to us and we have a lot to learn but we're excited and we're excited that you are along with us in our journey. In a future post I suppose I'll need to talk about our sexuality. So far it's leaned more toward why we left ministry and not as much about why we chose sex work. So...stay tuned! I'll eventually get to that and a whole lot more!
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Love,
Lil Birdie
